Has Karate developed my self discipline? A random pondering!

                                  

I have often wondered "How good is my self discipline?" I was brought up with a background in Karate which is a very disciplined art, so naturally I figured I would be good. Karate teaches respect: respect to your superiors, respect to others in the class, respect to the art & respect for yourself.
Does it teach self discipline to survive in the rigours of daily life?

What are the self discipline skills required for everyday life?
I think: Punctuality, hygiene, personal appearance, politeness, accepting criticism, working within a team, reliability, composure & attitude.


So how does Karate fit in here?

Punctuality and reliability
It doesn't teach punctuality, it is just expected. If we were late, we weren't refused entry. We had to wait on our knees at the back until invited to enter the class. I learned some patience, but not really punctuality. But, entering late meant the line ups had to move around. As I developed, I respected my class not to cause a disruption to the line up. Naturally, I learned punctuality and reliability.

Hygiene and Personal presentation
I did not learn this from Karate. But everyone else looked in good order, it was just expected. In respect to the class, to the instructor & to the other Karateka I conformed and ensured these were good.

Accepting criticism
From day 1 you are receiving feedback, being corrected, told to move forward, move back. Accepting criticism is part of the norm in developing your Karate skills. It is expected and is fundamental to the (any) developmental process. Of course when I say 'accepting criticism' I should be more careful with the wording as I actually mean 'receiving feedback'; but, it is accepting criticism. We just assume criticism is negative and many so called definitions found on the web depict it as negative. Naturally, I have become used to criticism, desensitised.

Composure and attitude
Karate teaches you to remain calm, to breathe, to switch on and off a mindset. It, also, develops a level of confidence which means you may not feel the need to get angry or upset. I feel the reason many do get angry is because they lack confidence and self-efficacy, so they counter it with emotion.

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